Most of us think that gay people are always happy people. The fact is, they are not always happy and it is always been the same with straight people. Gays are like comedian on stage performing to make the audience laugh and be entertained. But after the shows, gays are back to their real world where problems are over loaded and often end up hiding and crying. As much as possible, gays try to avoid dramas in life so they engage in other activities that can help them escape from all the burdens they are carrying. They are very flexible that can change one mood directly to another mood. Most especially when gay friends are around, there is never a dull moment when a circle of gay friends bond together. But, do you ever wonder why gay people are happy people? Here are some of things that gays usually do to enjoy life and be happy:
Sex Talks- As what I have observed, it is normal for everyone to talk about sex. People in the same sexes when together usually ends up talking about their experiences. So there is also no excuse for gay people to talk about sex, and in fact, it is always the main course whenever and wherever gays may be. No matter how many times you talk about it, sex is always an interesting subject to discuss. Gays are intrigue basically about: Who he was? What’s the size? How did you do it? How was he in bed? And often times, well, most of the gays I know, exaggerate events to make the story more interesting and funny. Every gay are expected to share their very own sex experience.
Night Out Fun –Staying Friday and Saturday night in the house with nothing to do is the most boring part of a gay life. So gays zest up on these nights, wear their best party clothes and then get ready for the plan of all night partying and dancing. Is it true that gays and fun are twin sisters? Well, I believe that because if you are looking for fun, just find out where the gays are going! They go out to a new bar opening or go to their favorite bars hoping and praying that there will be lots of guys going too. Gays love the atmosphere where there is music and alcohol. They just drink and drink one after another shot, set their feet for the dance, then hook up with a guy easily, and later on, might exchange you for his new found friend. Just expect the “Thank you for the night, friend” on the next day with their hang over.
Men Hunting – Ask your gay friend where is the best place to spend time where you can enjoy the moment even while just sitting. Gays are fond with crowded places where they can feast their eyes with good looking guys around. While you see them not moving that much, it is the eyes that move around as if investigating every person in the area. Their eyes are the busiest part of their body. The sense of sight are well developed that it easily catch attractive guys and will only rest when the right one is found The more hot guys around the better mood for the gays, and unfortunately, the next problem you’ll have is when will be the time to move out?
Critics Alert! – In connection to “men hunting” where you just stay in one place for longer time, gays also stay in a place for a while because they are fond of criticizing people. It is one of their bad attitudes but they can never help it, it naturally comes out from them. Maybe the discrimination of the society influences they way they are. The bashings and humiliation they receive while growing up are one of the factors why a gay posses attitudes like this. It is the judgment of the people that made them judge the people. The more negative the criticisms are, the funnier it is for the gays. All I can say is: Watch Out! Hehehehehe!
Sex, Sex and more Sex – They said that gays are promiscuous. A gay can go finish a night with two or more sex partners. Other gays indulge in sex orgy that involves many guys having sex together in one place at one time. I believe that exhibition and adventure are instinct to gays because even a gay is shy or silent, it is surprising to see him become exhibitionist and adventurous during an intercourse. Gays can make every corner of the bed and all the walls in the room as a good spot for sex. Gay sex does not appreciate shyness and dullness. What makes it great is there are two partners who know well what things to do during sex to satisfy each other. Sex is one of the things that make a gay happy. A healthy sex life, is a happy life.
Love Offering – Gays basically look for love. The fact that the society does not fully accepted gays yet and wherever you are in the world people will always say things when seeing gay lovers holding hands in public, then, there will always be gays who are afraid to show their true selves and affections because they are scared of the judgments around. There is always hunger for true and everlasting love because there are no great gay love stories to tell when it comes to forever lasting relationship just like the straight people do. If there are, sadly, it is unheard and straight people do not think about it much. Though one film made a noise, thank you “Broke Back Mountain” for helping the world opens their eyes about gay love stories. It was indeed a phenomenon. It makes every gay be proud of being gay. When it comes to love, expect the best from the gays. So, when a gay finds true love, well, just like any other people in this world, would be so happy in his life. But when love hurt a gay’s feelings, friends should be there for him. Be with him in the ups and downs in every relationship he have. Offer your shoulder to every cry he makes. Give him your best advices and always open your heart for him no matter what. For he knows, he is secure whenever he is with you and the only thing that will matter in the end, the only thing that can make him so happy as a person, is to have the genuine LOVE he can only find in a true friend.
Matt Damon takes the top honor in People Magazine’s Sexiest Man Alive 2007. Here’s what People had to say about the sexiest man alive:
