Accepting ones self is the first step to know who you are
and what you really are. You will never find happiness when you are confused with your self. Just try to let the real you come out. Never deny, do not hide, do not be scared, and do not lie on what you really like. There maybe a lot of factors to consider that hinders your coming out. Parents are on the top of the things that worry you so much, especially, the father. Personally, I do not know what it is like but I do feel for those who are in the situation. More often they become closeted, queer and discreet. Their emotions, gestures and culture are being controlled by how they appear to be. There are some things to consider why you chose to be like that. Everyone understands whoever is in that kind of situation. But the question is: Up to how long can you be a prisoner of the real you? When will you follow what you want for yourself and forget what your parents or the people around you want them to be who you are? You may become expert in playing that role but you will also regret every single moment of it. Remember, we are getting older and not younger. The more you let others tolerate you with 
what they want you to become, the more regrets you will have later. We own our own lives. We have the right to live and chose who and what we want to be. Be yourself and be happy. If there are people who are not happy for who you are then they are the people who do not understand you. It is your own choices that really matters. After all it is your own life that you are dealing with. Forget about the concern on what others will say. What is important is YOU are YOU and you are happy with being who you really are.
This time is the right time for you to have a decision that is good for your self. Just think about yourself now. There is nothing wrong about coming out. Expressing oneself is one of the bravest and the most appreciated acts in a man’s life. Tell the world who you are and you will feel unleashed. Be true to your self so that others will know how to deal with you. Being gay is being happy. You will get to enjoy the kind of life it offers. There is nothing compares when you are in the circle. For being gay and being with gays means having life, love, fun...fun...fun…and lots of fun! You will learn how to be strong because in an everyday life of a gay, it is always a challenge to prove yourself how far can you get with all the misjudgment and discrimination around. And when you finally get there…You will be so proud of your self that you made it. In spite that the world is too much mess for gays, we always find a way to laugh and even have an adventure everyday in everything we do. This is what the straight people
envy us a lot. While they seem to be very strong and organized, it is them who are really weak when it comes to facing the real troubles in life. But for the gays, because of the discrimination that tails us all the time, we learn how to be a fighter…so when the real problem comes; it is nothing new to us anymore. And by that, we still manage to laugh at it.
It is time to decide for what is good for you now. Express yourself and feel relieved. Life in this world has a lot to offer. So do not let the day gone by, by regretting every moment of it when you pass the places where you want to go and seeing the things you really want to do. The curtain is up now, so come on out and celebrate life! There is nothing happier than being a gay because whatever dictionary you have…it is always the word HAPPY that best defines the meaning of GAY!
Life is so beautiful and whatever reason it is why you still continue living with it is because of only one thing: HAPPINESS. A big house, new cars, successful businesses, great achievements, wonderful family, and all the things that you want in life are the things that makes you happy. It is true that no person is contented with his life but there are people who are happy with their lives. It is so important that you know what makes you happy because when you know it, you also know where to start and where you plan to head your journey. This is true to all mankind. Happiness do not chose a person. Even the disables, the ill, and the poor have their own way of finding happiness and it doesn't matter if you are black, white or brown…and even if you are straight or gay...
