What Makes Gay People Happy People?

Most of us think that gay people are always happy people. The fact is, they are not always happy and it is always been the same with straight people. Gays are like comedian on stage performing to make the audience laugh and be entertained. But after the shows, gays are back to their real world where problems are over loaded and often end up hiding and crying. As much as possible, gays try to avoid dramas in life so they engage in other activities that can help them escape from all the burdens they are carrying. They are very flexible that can change one mood directly to another mood. Most especially when gay friends are around, there is never a dull moment when a circle of gay friends bond together. But, do you ever wonder why gay people are happy people? Here are some of things that gays usually do to enjoy life and be happy:

Sex Talks- As what I have observed, it is normal for everyone to talk about sex. People in the same sexes when together usually ends up talking about their experiences. So there is also no excuse for gay people to talk about sex, and in fact, it is always the main course whenever and wherever gays may be. No matter how many times you talk about it, sex is always an interesting subject to discuss. Gays are intrigue basically about: Who he was? What’s the size? How did you do it? How was he in bed? And often times, well, most of the gays I know, exaggerate events to make the story more interesting and funny. Every gay are expected to share their very own sex experience.

Night Out Fun –Staying Friday and Saturday night in the house with nothing to do is the most boring part of a gay life. So gays zest up on these nights, wear their best party clothes and then get ready for the plan of all night partying and dancing. Is it true that gays and fun are twin sisters? Well, I believe that because if you are looking for fun, just find out where the gays are going! They go out to a new bar opening or go to their favorite bars hoping and praying that there will be lots of guys going too. Gays love the atmosphere where there is music and alcohol. They just drink and drink one after another shot, set their feet for the dance, then hook up with a guy easily, and later on, might exchange you for his new found friend. Just expect the “Thank you for the night, friend” on the next day with their hang over.

Men Hunting – Ask your gay friend where is the best place to spend time where you can enjoy the moment even while just sitting. Gays are fond with crowded places where they can feast their eyes with good looking guys around. While you see them not moving that much, it is the eyes that move around as if investigating every person in the area. Their eyes are the busiest part of their body. The sense of sight are well developed that it easily catch attractive guys and will only rest when the right one is found The more hot guys around the better mood for the gays, and unfortunately, the next problem you’ll have is when will be the time to move out?

Critics Alert! – In connection to “men hunting” where you just stay in one place for longer time, gays also stay in a place for a while because they are fond of criticizing people. It is one of their bad attitudes but they can never help it, it naturally comes out from them. Maybe the discrimination of the society influences they way they are. The bashings and humiliation they receive while growing up are one of the factors why a gay posses attitudes like this. It is the judgment of the people that made them judge the people. The more negative the criticisms are, the funnier it is for the gays. All I can say is: Watch Out! Hehehehehe!

Sex, Sex and more Sex – They said that gays are promiscuous. A gay can go finish a night with two or more sex partners. Other gays indulge in sex orgy that involves many guys having sex together in one place at one time. I believe that exhibition and adventure are instinct to gays because even a gay is shy or silent, it is surprising to see him become exhibitionist and adventurous during an intercourse. Gays can make every corner of the bed and all the walls in the room as a good spot for sex. Gay sex does not appreciate shyness and dullness. What makes it great is there are two partners who know well what things to do during sex to satisfy each other. Sex is one of the things that make a gay happy. A healthy sex life, is a happy life.

Love Offering – Gays basically look for love. The fact that the society does not fully accepted gays yet and wherever you are in the world people will always say things when seeing gay lovers holding hands in public, then, there will always be gays who are afraid to show their true selves and affections because they are scared of the judgments around. There is always hunger for true and everlasting love because there are no great gay love stories to tell when it comes to forever lasting relationship just like the straight people do. If there are, sadly, it is unheard and straight people do not think about it much. Though one film made a noise, thank you “Broke Back Mountain” for helping the world opens their eyes about gay love stories. It was indeed a phenomenon. It makes every gay be proud of being gay. When it comes to love, expect the best from the gays. So, when a gay finds true love, well, just like any other people in this world, would be so happy in his life. But when love hurt a gay’s feelings, friends should be there for him. Be with him in the ups and downs in every relationship he have. Offer your shoulder to every cry he makes. Give him your best advices and always open your heart for him no matter what. For he knows, he is secure whenever he is with you and the only thing that will matter in the end, the only thing that can make him so happy as a person, is to have the genuine LOVE he can only find in a true friend.

Be Gay Be Happy

Life is so beautiful and whatever reason it is why you still continue living with it is because of only one thing: HAPPINESS. A big house, new cars, successful businesses, great achievements, wonderful family, and all the things that you want in life are the things that makes you happy. It is true that no person is contented with his life but there are people who are happy with their lives. It is so important that you know what makes you happy because when you know it, you also know where to start and where you plan to head your journey. This is true to all mankind. Happiness do not chose a person. Even the disables, the ill, and the poor have their own way of finding happiness and it doesn't matter if you are black, white or brown…and even if you are straight or gay...

Accepting ones self is the first step to know who you are and what you really are. You will never find happiness when you are confused with your self. Just try to let the real you come out. Never deny, do not hide, do not be scared, and do not lie on what you really like. There maybe a lot of factors to consider that hinders your coming out. Parents are on the top of the things that worry you so much, especially, the father. Personally, I do not know what it is like but I do feel for those who are in the situation. More often they become closeted, queer and discreet. Their emotions, gestures and culture are being controlled by how they appear to be. There are some things to consider why you chose to be like that. Everyone understands whoever is in that kind of situation. But the question is: Up to how long can you be a prisoner of the real you? When will you follow what you want for yourself and forget what your parents or the people around you want them to be who you are? You may become expert in playing that role but you will also regret every single moment of it. Remember, we are getting older and not younger. The more you let others tolerate you with what they want you to become, the more regrets you will have later. We own our own lives. We have the right to live and chose who and what we want to be. Be yourself and be happy. If there are people who are not happy for who you are then they are the people who do not understand you. It is your own choices that really matters. After all it is your own life that you are dealing with. Forget about the concern on what others will say. What is important is YOU are YOU and you are happy with being who you really are.

This time is the right time for you to have a decision that is good for your self. Just think about yourself now. There is nothing wrong about coming out. Expressing oneself is one of the bravest and the most appreciated acts in a man’s life. Tell the world who you are and you will feel unleashed. Be true to your self so that others will know how to deal with you. Being gay is being happy. You will get to enjoy the kind of life it offers. There is nothing compares when you are in the circle. For being gay and being with gays means having life, love, fun...fun...fun…and lots of fun! You will learn how to be strong because in an everyday life of a gay, it is always a challenge to prove yourself how far can you get with all the misjudgment and discrimination around. And when you finally get there…You will be so proud of your self that you made it. In spite that the world is too much mess for gays, we always find a way to laugh and even have an adventure everyday in everything we do. This is what the straight people envy us a lot. While they seem to be very strong and organized, it is them who are really weak when it comes to facing the real troubles in life. But for the gays, because of the discrimination that tails us all the time, we learn how to be a fighter…so when the real problem comes; it is nothing new to us anymore. And by that, we still manage to laugh at it.

It is time to decide for what is good for you now. Express yourself and feel relieved. Life in this world has a lot to offer. So do not let the day gone by, by regretting every moment of it when you pass the places where you want to go and seeing the things you really want to do. The curtain is up now, so come on out and celebrate life! There is nothing happier than being a gay because whatever dictionary you have…it is always the word HAPPY that best defines the meaning of GAY!