LaDyBoY iN ReD

Why Red?

Because Red is a very interesting color. While others define it as the color of war, for me it is the color of Love and Lust. Red roses symbolizes passion. Red lipstick makes your lips pout and kissable. Red nails are seducing. Red dress is hot. Red silk is sensual. The color Red makes me in the mood for anything warm and wild. It is a very powerful color.


There are several reasons why i wear Red. Sometimes it depends on what i am feeling or on what i want to feel. I wear Red when:

• I am In Love

• I also wear red accent pieces when I want to present myself as bold and dynamic. It can boost my confidence if I am attending a function or interview where I feel unsure of myself.

• I need to grab attention and to get people to take action.

• I don't want to sink into the background.

• I need an increased of enthusiasm and interest.

• I need more energy

• motivate me to have action and confidence to go after my dreams.

• protection from fears and anxieties.

• attracts good luck in my life.

People may have different reasons why they wear red. Some hates it, some likes it. For some it is for good uses, but there are others that express their pains, hatred, and violent disapproval through using the red color. There are even few that doesn't care about meaning of the colors. But with all our reasons, beliefs, and significance in using red color, one thing is very important..."the rainbow, that gives us the sign for a beautiful day ahead, can never be as beautiful without the color Red."

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Dos and Don'ts In Dating A Filipina Ladyboy/TS/Shemale

Hey you guys!! Are you interested in dating a Filipina Ladyboy/ TS/ Shemale in the Philippines? If yes, then learn the things you need to do and the things you need not to do for you to sweep her feet off the ground on the very first date. Here are some of the dos and don't s in dating a Filipina Ladyboy:

1. Do open the purpose on dating her. Filipina Ladyboys/TS are very emotional. They easily like and fall to someone who shows care and treats them well. But if you are just dating her for sex purposes then show her your purpose slowly and in a very kind manner. And if you are dating her because you really are interested in her, then the first thing you need to do is to show her what you really feel and hit her in her heart from the start.

• = Do not get too serious on your date if you are only interested in sex. She might get hurt to find out that her impressions about you are wrong. But still, provide her a nice and wonderful date for that will be the only thing she might think worth keeping for.

2. Do chose a good clothes to wear for you to look presentable. Filipina Ladyboys are conciously fashionable, and so at least, you need to look good when you are with her. What i mean about good clothes is wearing something comfortable and updated at the same time - a casual wear. Nice shirt, good pair of jeans, and the right shoes to wear is already a go go!

• =Do not wear motley or very colorful and neon shirts- that is not impressive in their eyes.

3. Do ask her where to go. She wants to go places where she feels safe and accepted. And when you want to go out for fun, she definitely knows where to head out. But if you want to bring her to places where she have never been to, make her feel comfortable and tell her how great she looks!

• = Do not bring her to places that can bore her or makes her feel out of place. Or else, you wont get to win her yes.

4. Do ask her anything worth talking for. Filipina ladyboys are intelligent people and can carry a meaningful conversation. Asking her about how she becomes a ladyboy or anything about your curiosity in her identity is not new to her and wont make you any different from all the other guys. So for you to impress her, chose a different topic that is not related on her being a ladyboy.

• = Do not establish a doctor- client atmosphere, or something like an interview portion on a tv program where she feels your curiosity about ladyboys. Remember, you are in a date not in a research study. Ask her about her dreams and interest in life instead.

5. Do show her that you are a good provider. Your generosity will make her feel important and of value to you. Filipina Ladyboys/TS are longing for a lavish life because of less job opportunities due to discrimination and of the poor condition of living in the Philippines. So therefore, by showing that you are stable enough to give her a worthy date, that will make her more interested on you.

• = Do not spoil her too much but just be responsible enough to make the date worth remembering for.

6. Do show an interest to her interest. Try to appreciate the things she can do and acknowledge her abilities and potentialities. In that way, she will think that you are really interested in her and that you are going to be proud of whatever she is and she will be.

• = Do not make her feel that is she nothing compare to you. If you have all the achievements in life, you can tell her about it but not in an intimidating way. Show her what you got but be humble enough to appreciate the things she have and she can do even it is not as great as what you have.

7. Do keep yourself real. Be true to yourself and show her the real you. She will truly appreciate that.

• = Do not pretend someone who you are not. Filipina Ladyboys are very keen in observing someone's personality. So when she catches something fake to your words and gestures, expect a fake response in return.

What Makes Gay People Happy People?

Most of us think that gay people are always happy people. The fact is, they are not always happy and it is always been the same with straight people. Gays are like comedian on stage performing to make the audience laugh and be entertained. But after the shows, gays are back to their real world where problems are over loaded and often end up hiding and crying. As much as possible, gays try to avoid dramas in life so they engage in other activities that can help them escape from all the burdens they are carrying. They are very flexible that can change one mood directly to another mood. Most especially when gay friends are around, there is never a dull moment when a circle of gay friends bond together. But, do you ever wonder why gay people are happy people? Here are some of things that gays usually do to enjoy life and be happy:

Sex Talks- As what I have observed, it is normal for everyone to talk about sex. People in the same sexes when together usually ends up talking about their experiences. So there is also no excuse for gay people to talk about sex, and in fact, it is always the main course whenever and wherever gays may be. No matter how many times you talk about it, sex is always an interesting subject to discuss. Gays are intrigue basically about: Who he was? What’s the size? How did you do it? How was he in bed? And often times, well, most of the gays I know, exaggerate events to make the story more interesting and funny. Every gay are expected to share their very own sex experience.

Night Out Fun –Staying Friday and Saturday night in the house with nothing to do is the most boring part of a gay life. So gays zest up on these nights, wear their best party clothes and then get ready for the plan of all night partying and dancing. Is it true that gays and fun are twin sisters? Well, I believe that because if you are looking for fun, just find out where the gays are going! They go out to a new bar opening or go to their favorite bars hoping and praying that there will be lots of guys going too. Gays love the atmosphere where there is music and alcohol. They just drink and drink one after another shot, set their feet for the dance, then hook up with a guy easily, and later on, might exchange you for his new found friend. Just expect the “Thank you for the night, friend” on the next day with their hang over.

Men Hunting – Ask your gay friend where is the best place to spend time where you can enjoy the moment even while just sitting. Gays are fond with crowded places where they can feast their eyes with good looking guys around. While you see them not moving that much, it is the eyes that move around as if investigating every person in the area. Their eyes are the busiest part of their body. The sense of sight are well developed that it easily catch attractive guys and will only rest when the right one is found The more hot guys around the better mood for the gays, and unfortunately, the next problem you’ll have is when will be the time to move out?

Critics Alert! – In connection to “men hunting” where you just stay in one place for longer time, gays also stay in a place for a while because they are fond of criticizing people. It is one of their bad attitudes but they can never help it, it naturally comes out from them. Maybe the discrimination of the society influences they way they are. The bashings and humiliation they receive while growing up are one of the factors why a gay posses attitudes like this. It is the judgment of the people that made them judge the people. The more negative the criticisms are, the funnier it is for the gays. All I can say is: Watch Out! Hehehehehe!

Sex, Sex and more Sex – They said that gays are promiscuous. A gay can go finish a night with two or more sex partners. Other gays indulge in sex orgy that involves many guys having sex together in one place at one time. I believe that exhibition and adventure are instinct to gays because even a gay is shy or silent, it is surprising to see him become exhibitionist and adventurous during an intercourse. Gays can make every corner of the bed and all the walls in the room as a good spot for sex. Gay sex does not appreciate shyness and dullness. What makes it great is there are two partners who know well what things to do during sex to satisfy each other. Sex is one of the things that make a gay happy. A healthy sex life, is a happy life.

Love Offering – Gays basically look for love. The fact that the society does not fully accepted gays yet and wherever you are in the world people will always say things when seeing gay lovers holding hands in public, then, there will always be gays who are afraid to show their true selves and affections because they are scared of the judgments around. There is always hunger for true and everlasting love because there are no great gay love stories to tell when it comes to forever lasting relationship just like the straight people do. If there are, sadly, it is unheard and straight people do not think about it much. Though one film made a noise, thank you “Broke Back Mountain” for helping the world opens their eyes about gay love stories. It was indeed a phenomenon. It makes every gay be proud of being gay. When it comes to love, expect the best from the gays. So, when a gay finds true love, well, just like any other people in this world, would be so happy in his life. But when love hurt a gay’s feelings, friends should be there for him. Be with him in the ups and downs in every relationship he have. Offer your shoulder to every cry he makes. Give him your best advices and always open your heart for him no matter what. For he knows, he is secure whenever he is with you and the only thing that will matter in the end, the only thing that can make him so happy as a person, is to have the genuine LOVE he can only find in a true friend.

Top Myths About Bisexual Men

Homosexuals and heterosexuals alike often misunderstand the nature of bisexuality. The thought of a person that is attracted to both men and women can be confusing and frequently leads to misconceptions and stereotypes. Below are the top 5 myths about bi men.

Bisexuality Is Only a Phase

For years the gay community has challenged heterosexuals who publicly state that homosexuality is only a phase. Bisexuals face the same generalization from both the gay and straight community. Many bisexuals are completely in touch with their emotions and desires for members of both sexes and often feel limited by the thought of attraction to only a man or woman. Emotional connections often take precedence when bisexuals pursue a potential partner. Bisexuality is just as much of a natural preference as homosexuality and heterosexuality.


Bi Men Have to Choose To Be Either Gay or Straight

Bisexuals are attracted to both men and women on both an emotional and physical level. Some "lean straight" (meaning they prefer a member of the opposite sex, but same sex partners are always an option) and others "lean gay" (which means they prefer members of the same sex, but would consider a relationship with a member of the opposite sex). Nonetheless, they are not simply gay or straight and definitely do not have to choose.


Bisexual Men are Sexually Confused

A common misconception in both the gay and heterosexual communities is that bisexuals are sexually confused and cannot make up their minds which sex they like. However, that's the whole point- bisexuals are attracted to both sexes and are in many cases more clear about their sexuality than most others.


Bisexual Men Will Never Marry

Alongside the thought that bisexual men and women are sexually confused is the myth that they will never be able to settle on a partner of any sex. In many cases bisexuals put a lot of emphasis on emotional connections with either sex. This in mind, the opportunity for them to find a life partner is just as viable as it is for a heterosexual or homosexual. However, since same-sex marriage isn't legal in most places of the world, only a heterosexual marriage in most places will be recognized by law.


Bi Men are Sexually Promiscuous

Bisexuals are no more promiscuous than any others. Promiscuity (or frequent sex with multiple partners) depends on the individual irrespective of their sexual preference. However, liking both sexes increases a bisexual's chances of a sexual encounter or potential relationship (by shear numbers alone).


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A Letter To A Gay Friend

Dearest Alvin,

I was at the height of a confrontation with my dad when Natty called up and informed me that you were slashing your wrist after you found out that your boyfriend is now living with another gay. I tried my best to take it lightly however; I couldn’t help but feel terribly shocked especially so when I learned that the other gay used to be your close friend. This is the reason why I am writing you because I want to tell you that it is not yet the end of the world and that your beloved Danny Boy is not worth taking your life.

I really don’t understand what had been happening to our circle these past few days. Just last week, our gay friends came to me and cried to me their madness at the world. I hope you already know about Mcrae who, behind her being multi Miss Gay titlist, always receive bad words from his overly jealous boyfriend every time she is seen talking to another man. Here was Frederick who begged me to help her because her darling PJ is being courted by a gay professor. Ryan on the other hand, complained because Jay-Ar has not courted her yet after she has spent all her savings for her beauty regiments.

Wouldn’t you asked me about Dimple? He had been confining his self inside his room and has not yet been attending his classes lately because on his frustrations with Karl. Of course I don’t want you to mind Rene and Natty who always flaunt their virginity (as if we care?) because opposite to them are Weng and Roland who always take sex as a staple food. See how colorful our loves are? We’re just sharing our sentiments anyway!

My dear sister, I understand how painful and difficult it is on your part to go through such emotional nightmare. I know very well how much you love him and how much you give your life to him. In fact, I had been a witness to those many times when you had several ulcer attacks because you had to wait for him until midnight without eating anything so you could have dinner together but, only to be told that he could not go home because he was with his friends, enjoying the night over bottles of beer. I could not forget the many Sunday mornings when you were not feeling well but you had got out of bed and bear washing his bundle of vomit-smelling clothes. I knew you bought most of those as your gift for him. And worst, I could still see your tears and feel your worries every time he got sick and you would chose to miss your classes just to take care of him.

However, I don’t want you to regret your love for Danny Boy. Having love him the way is just normal for us gays because that is our nature of loving men. Gays have the high tendencies of falling inlove easily when men make us believe that we are important to them. We are also brave risk-takers for if we decide to love we give our life whole heartedly. Perhaps this is one reason why men take advantage if us because they believe it is our weakness. But, they just don’t know that deep in our hearts is an overwhelming victory as we take the gay pride of providing to everybody that we are normal individuals who have the capacity to love and whose capacity to love transcends all the earth’s boundaries.

Thus, let me tell you that committing suicide is the most stupid thing that you would have ever done in your life. Danny does not deserve you and his now living with another gay does not make you a less person either. It’s his loss not yours. Your love for him was one proof that you can be a great lover, even a better lover than straight men and women. With the experience, you’ll surely become a well adjusted gay individual whose life can be so much better than those who went through exchanging marriage vows and suddenly broke up, better than those who pretend that their families are happy and intact, better than those wives whose husbands secretly hang out with men during their free time, better than those who use the Bible as instrument to get themselves closer to men, and most of all, so much better than those narrow minded preachers who wrongly judge us because of their ignorance to the fact that gays are people who can be happy, loving, and of value of society.

Finally, I want you to know that there is so much more in life that we have to live for. You’re still young and I want you to sail on, continue to love again, and follow your heart’s desires. Just bear in mind that nobody, not even straight males and females, is guaranteed a perfect relationship. And if you’ll get hurt again, just accept it and be grateful with it. Joe D Mango once wrote that we should be thankful and happy, not because we lost love, but because, for once in our lives, that feeling live in our hearts and made us happy.

Good Luck Sister!

With love,

Ate V

This letter was written by my college adviser, Prof. Arthur Pizzaro, for his very good friend who had problems of love that time. It was published in the Special February Edition of our Official College Newsletter “Cassayuran” Mindanao State University – Iligan Institute of Technology in the section “Familiar Faces, Hidden Lives.”

How To Win A TS or Shemale’s Heart

A Transgender or Shemale is commonly define as a “Woman trapped in a Man’s body.” The fact that we are Woman just inside a man’s body, we want to be treated as what is a real woman should be. If you are treating us like a woman then we are going to respond the same way. We want to feel safe with a man who we love and who we wanted to be loved. There is an essence of femininity inside us so we just don’t look merely for sex, but a sex tied up with love. Transsexuals are more feminine than real females. With the new generations of females nowadays, who are independent, assertive, argumentative, and are pain in the ass, we, shemales are more traditional when it comes to love and sex. A guy would love to date TS because we have far better understanding to what is it means to be male than any other real girl will. We know where and what to satisfy a man.

We, TS/TV/Shemale look for a guy who loves and appreciate us. What we look in a guy is also what any woman wants in a guy. So if a guy would want to develop a relationship with TS, it’s just the same way with how you approach a real woman. But we are more special than any other girl. So here are some things a guy needs to know how to treat TS special to win her very heart:

1. Flower Power – Offer her flowers not a dick. If you want her to believe you really got good intentions on her then you should try to make her feel pretty like a flower.

2. Dinner Date – Any girl would love to go on a dinner date and that is what any ts do like too. With a beautiful ambiance, good food, great wine, and nice talk, a ts would really think its one of her most memorable experience.

3. Do not treat her like a freak - Treat her like any other girls you used to date with. Do not make her feel anything that will suspect her about you if you just going on a date with her because of curiosity. And if your interest is really genuine then you should be true to your feelings. Tell her how special she is and treat her nicely.

4. Be a gentleman – Be gentle with her emotions. Do not focus your conversation about TS issues because it happens all the time. Instead, try to talk about her likes and interest in life. TS fully expects her dates to ask her about inappropriate- sex or TS related questions because that is what usually that happens. But this time, do not bring up the subject, most likely, that will surprise her and that will make a big impression.

5. Understand her - Odds are, if a ts is taking hormones, expect mood swings. The TS pre-op may still have a dick, but psychologically she’s a girl.

6. Lastly, respect how a TS regard herself – TS respond as a woman, therefore she regards herself as a woman. She wants to immerse herself into something warmly and clearly feminine, which accounts for the clearly feminine clothing and heels. A man who respect and appreciate her femaleness, accept and love her is in for a huge benefit. He will be on the receiving end of a whole lot of attention, affection, and desires.

Good luck on your search for the right TS for you. Just let her feel all your love and you will get more than what you give in return. And remember this, A TS’s often have a better understanding of what men want, a better grip on how to be female.

tsgirlfriend.com thanks for some of the thoughts

Gay Pride Gay Power

LGBT pride events are a great place to meet other gay people, learn about the history of LGBT rights and rally for LGBT equality. March in a parade near you or just join the crowd. The 2007 LGBT pride events promise to be more invigorating than ever!

What is Gay Pride?

Gays in a growing number of cities and countries participate in annual parades, festivals and events collectively called gay pride. Most gay prides span from a few days to over a week and are filled with dances, volunteer and social events and highly publicized parades. These pride events are organized by local charities or volunteer organizations.

History of Gay Pride

The first gay pride parade in 1969, known as the March on Stonewall, started as a protest against discrimination and violence against gays in New York City. Today, pride events have become an annual ritual and have grown to include thousands of gay and gay-friendly participants, not to mention hundreds of spectators.

Many gays and lesbians dress in bright colors, head-to-toe leather or sometimes next to nothing. But regardless of the attire, all of the participants join the festivities to remind the world that gays deserve the same rights as others and people should be free to live their own lifestyle, void of judgement or hate. Gay pride is also a symbol of solidarity and an opportunity to express the vivid personalities which reflect the diverse gay communities throughout the world. During this time (and in many places year round), the skies are covered with the gay pride flags and banners, the symbol of gay solidarity and freedom.

Meaning and History of The Gay Pride or Rainbow Flag

The gay pride flag was designed by Gilbert Baker and debuted at the 1978 San Francisco Gay and Lesbian Freedom Day Parade. It's inspiration came from the black civil rights and hippie movements. Each color on the gay pride flag has as different meaning. Test your knowledge below.

Rainbow Pride Flag

RED = Life

ORANGE = Healing

YELLOW = Sun

GREEN = Nature

ROYAL BLUE = Harmony

VIOLET = Spirit

Adding a black stripe to the bottom of the flag represents victory over AIDS. It can also signify leather daddy pride.

Join Gay Pride! Tell the World Who You Are and Have Gay Days for the Rest of Your Life!

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Gay Translations

Every one of us can read between the lines and can easily understand what one phrase would mean when spoken in a different way. These lines are commonly use by everyone, everywhere. But you do ever wonder what do these lines mean to the gays? Here are some of the gay translations in some phrases that we often used:

I want a commitment.
= I'm sick of masturbation.

Haven't I seen you before?
= Nice ass.

I need you.
= My hand is tired.

You're the only man I've ever cared about.
= You are the only man who hasn't rejected me.

I'm a Romantic.
= I'm poor.

I really want to get to know you better.
= So I can tell my friends about it.

It's just orange juice, try it.
= 3 more shots, and he'll have his legs around my head.

He's kinda cute.
= I want to have sex with him till my dick turns blue!

He's not my type.
= He won't sleep with me.

I miss you so much
= I am so horny that my dog is starting to look good.

I had a wonderful time last night.
= Who the hell are you?

Do you love me?
= I've done something stupid and you might find out.

Do you 'really' love me?
= I've done something stupid and you're going to find out.

I'll give you a call.
= I'd rather have my nipples torn off by wild dogs than see you again.

I've been thinking a lot.
= You're not as attractive as when I was drunk.

I think we should just be friends.
= You're ugly.

I've learned a lot from you.
= Next!!!!


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A TS LOVE...

After feeling the pains of a broken heart in our last relationships, we always say Love Really Hurts. Sometimes we make promises to never get easy on love again and we should be very careful the next time we fall inlove. But why do we still get hurt even in our new relationships? Questions like this should never be asked if you feel love and thus should be accepted first and foremost. Because when it comes to TS, Love and Pain comes the same. Guys can easily take advantage on us because they know that when we love we give our all. Most of the times, we take all the pains just to make the relationship keep going. But still it is us who are suffering and left alone.

First of all, when you look for love you must also be ready for the pain that comes together with it. The only problem about us, TS, is we give so much focus on the pains we experienced. We cry over days and weeks and tell every friend how hurt we are with our currently done relationships. Yes, being hurt is nature to man. But it doesn’t mean it is the only thing you had on your relationship. Why do we always make the pain as the main thing? The truth is Pain is just a little part of Love. There is still a big part that we refuse to recall because our hearts are still aching. Why not try to remember how inlove you were? How you did all the things you did just for the one you love? By doing that, you will come realize how great your love was. That crying over someone who hurt you is not what is your love is all about. And when you will realize that you are capable of giving genuine love, you will know it is not your loss. And that is all that matters. For you will never be completely human without knowing what Love is.

When one relationship ends, we think we would never love again. We put in our heads that being unattached again will make our lives more enjoyable. We get to go out where we want to go and can meet new people, partying like a bitch, have many men, more fun, more and more! We do these things because we want to avoid the possibility of loving once again. We think that looking for fun and playing around is the best way to forget about love. And as we go on like this for longer times, we tend to forget that we are capable of love and loving. Why love and get hurt when there is life full of fun without being inlove?

Everything in life changes when it is time to change. In a ts life, fun is our sister. We bitch around because we feel it is nature to us. And I know we are all wrong about it. There will be a time when your eyes will get dizzy of the disco lights, throats will be soaked with so much liquors, noses will sneeze out because of too much cigarettes, ears will be deaf by the constant beat of techno music and feet will become too lazy to dance....There will come a time that we will get tired of having fun, only fun and nothing else.

We all know that there is something lacking within us when there is no love around. We know that we are not totally happy without it. And when we recall our lives during the time we were with someone, it will definitely bring a smile to our faces and would probably say –“I know what I am missing”...Love truly completes our Happiness...

We should open our hearts again for everything that will come into our lives just to feel love once more. With no rushing and no hard trying, we will meet someone who will electrify us just like the feeling when we felt love for the very first time. Yes there is no assurance if he will be the right one. We knew that there are so many things to sacrifice...to give up...and to adjust for a new relationship to work, but just believe in what your heart will tell you -"Love with no questions, no fears and no rules...Just go on and do what you think that can make you happy...for love, even it hurt you before, made you cry and suffer...still it is LOVE"...

Listening to your heart will always prize you with a happy love life if you are sure that you are willing to give the best of it. Do not regret anything by following your heart. Going out for fun is always there but LOVE comes rare. The moment you feel it you should go for it!! You will come to learn that it is worth trying for and even you will have a million times of tries, you should never stop trying. Have faith that there is someone who are meant to be with you in your lifetime because that is what TS love is all about. It is all about patience, understanding, and caring.

TS are very special people when our lovers know how special we are. We long for LOVE and belongingness in a society where we are usually treated not equal. We look for security to a person that can make us feel worthwhile. When we feel that there is love, we stay. And in return to the love we receive, we give our unconditional love that goes beyond the boundaries of the stars. While it is true that Fun and TS are sisters, it is also true that Love and TS are twins. So when you truly love TS, you can definitely have both LOVE and FUN at the same time. And by that, i am proud to say that a TS LOVE is indeed the GREATEST LOVE of ALL...