In our moment of heat we are desperate to have someone to share our bed with. Sometimes fishes are so many that it’s easy to catch the one you like the most. But other times, the ocean is dead and you can’t see any fish you like to hook up for a good swim. Most of the time, you ended up to the person you do not like. What are we suppose to do? Is it alright to kiss someone you do not like just to get laid for the night? Or should we just go home and jaquiline off to pass through the need for intercourse?
We are usually left thinking; do we call the night off or stand the rest of the time to the wrong person? For others, calling it off somewhat means- not completing the day, but it might be the right thing to do. You can do it alone and be in your own world of fantasies wherever it is. It is better to end the night doing it alone than to go on to the person you knew it is not your type. When you are in the mood for sex, you might think it is a good sex because you are within the intercourse, but, how about after the take off? If we may examine clearly, in this case, you are doing sex because you just want a guy for a sex and not because you want sex for that guy. There is a big difference between that. Wanting a guy for a sex is making a guy as an instrument to help you get laid. You do not necessarily care if he fits your type or he is the best looking guy around. You just pick up who is available then that’s it…no strings attached, no feelings involve and even no names introduced. But, wanting sex for “a” guy is another case. It is the feeling of doing it to the guy. This guy fits your taste and basically you are into him. You have an attraction to this guy may it be physically or emotionally making him both the subject and object of your desires.
Personally, I do not want another experience of “regret after sex” where you ask your self again and again why you did it with him? Sometimes we really can not control our selves but it is better to not do it than to regret it after. No matter what, that guy will always be part of your memory and seeing him around will always remind you that fun is not always fun to do. You can forget it but you can not erase it. All the time you see him, the images of the night you were together will definitely flash in your mind. However, with all the experiences in life, we become numb and can easily cover it with wide smiles. But, how many of these are we counting? 1000 guys on the list and three fourth of them are what you regret? They said it is hard to do but if we think deeply, it is very easy. Just do not go to the guy you do not like. And if you find no bets around, then do not hook to the wrong bait. Start going on only with the guys that you like and only to the guys you feel doing it. What will happen most precisely is that you will end up having a list of a potential partners, and, if you do not want to get into a relationship yet, at least it is a good list that can be use for future references. There are a lot of times ahead of us and there are always some beautiful days to go for fishing. You’ll never knew that one of these days, or even sooner that we thought, the right fish might just come along without putting too much effort of looking for it. Remember this: It is more fun to have fun when you are in the right kind of fun!
