What's Just Around the Corner...

Why do we always see the beauty of life only in what is extraordinary? The 7 Wonders of the World and the most beautiful spots on earth are what we often describe as amazing. When we see rich and famous people we almost forget that they are also human like us. We always appreciate what is the extravagant and majestic but we fail to see that the simplest things around us also matters. While Shaw quoted: "Beauty is all very well at first sight; but who ever looks at it when it has been in the house three days?" John Ruskin, on the other hand, also quoted: "Remember that the most beautiful things in the world are the most useless; peacocks and lilies for instance." I believe that it is true that we often ignore the things we usually see everyday and because of that we also ignore the meaning of their existence. The truth is the simplest and the most useless things are the things that really posses the real beauty of our world but the meanings are drowned by our lack of appreciation with what is plain, usual, ordinary, basic, and simple. Though we go and travel everywhere to look and find the beautiful things we want to see, we must never forget that there is also life and beauty in just around the environment where we live. Confucius once said: "Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it." And in view of this, i want to share with you the beauty of our world not in the best beaches of the Philippines, or the structures of Europe, or the culture of China, and the jungle of Africa where everyone sees beauty everywhere...but only the beauty in what is just around our very corner...

the candle in the dark

the stuff toys in a room

the lamps in the board walk

a picture of a family

a corner of a place

the sunset in the city

the joy when you're with your friends

the dancing of the coconut tress

a flower in the bushes

a plant wet by rain

If these simple things in life, like the simple smile that can do good to you, or the site of the sunset filled you with joy, or you understand the message of every simple things around you... then you have nourished your being. If you can appreciate the beauty of life even in its simplest form, definitely you have a healthy soul. I'll leave you with one thought: "Live simple, because after all life is simple, you are only the one who complicates it."

*All pictures are photographed by my very good friend Edison Cabanlit...thank you so much for sharing your wonderful art.

Hot Fashion Pick: Denim Forever

I made this video to show you the evolution of jeans from the 18th century up to the present. In this century, denims are redesigned to make it look more creative and stylish. However, designer jeans are really expensive that it wont convince practically fashionable people with its price. As a result, more people goes to the cheaper brands but still trendy and comfortable to wear. Levis has evolved greatly that even up to now it is still in the hot list as one of the best jeans to wear. I have a couple of Levis jeans and it is one of my favorites jeans to wear when i am out in the sun together with Guess jeans. But whatever style and brand names it maybe, just always stay fashionable in your own way...show up that statement!!

HEAT UP WITH HOT HUNKS!!

HOLLYWOOD, the home of the most gorgeous men in the world. We see our favorite actors in everything we want to see them. They satisfy in our dreams of beautiful smiles, sharp looks, and hot bodies. We share our emotions with them...and we are inlove with them as we watch every movies they have. Life would be so boring without these men who complete our fantasies. Let them join you in your dreams...

In the parade of these very very hot hunks...i got 10 picks that suit my personal choice of physical beauty...taste of fashion...superb talents...oooozing sex appeals!!!

So brace up and enjoy the moment with MY TOP 10 HOTTEST GUYS....

1. BRAD PITT = sex appeal plus hot body...he got 'em all...sooo veryyy hotttt!!!

2. JOHNNY DEPP = now you tell me you didn't melt with that teasing look in his eyes...papalicioussssss!!

3. TOM CRUISE = the camera loves him...every view of him is a perfect angle...love yeah tommy baby!

4. KEANU REEEVES

= his handsome face tells it all...no one will argue to that...he visits me in my dreams at night...ohhh my dreamssss!!!

5.WENTWORTH MILLER - a FOX!! the kind of guy you want to be with everywhere ...this Prison Break hot hunk knows how to electrified your chair...execute me plsss!!!

6. CHAD MICHAEL MURRAY - if not the hottest, definitely one of the hottest young star today...this boy is the favorite toy of everyone...promising and good looking!!

7. VIN DIESEL = his mucles looks good in him...he got the animalistic appeal...a very manly charisma...bitches hunt him...and im one of them...mmmmmmmm!!

8. JOSH HARTNETT = ohhh josshhh you are the man that can heat up our desires...look at that sizzling appeal!!

9. JUDE LAW = his eyes complete your incompleteness...he is also one of the best dressed actor...i love everything about him...the total package is excellent!

10. ORLANDO BLOOM = my LEGOLAS...with his pretty face...i cant help thinking about him in a day...with his bow and arrow...he hit my heart without escape!!!

No argument is needed...everyone agrees...everyone is on heat with these hit and hot guys...now feel the wild sweat all over you...start the journey of your fantasy...

Sex and the City vs Desperate Housewives

These two shows are two of the most popular tv series of all time. We love each of the characters and emphatize them. We cry and we laugh with them. They are a HIT to everyone and we know that whatever is a HIT is also what's HOT. Now let us check them out and see who HIT being HOT!!

Worried Heart

Name a relationship and i got it all...i had a lot of serious relationships that went on for two years and more...name a big fight and i experienced it all...name a kind of a guy and i went through them all...from an intellectual, decent, clean guy...to a boy next door...to the bulliest guy around...call them whatever you want...they had once upon a time loved and cared to a trans like me...

you may say that there are a lot of people who also have experiences like what i had, but i take mine as an exception bcoz my situation is not as easy as the straight and bisexual love affairs that are acceptable, common or hidden...

a Princess Male like me is very noticable that even i just walk on the street, i catch attention all over...some call me names, and there are bashings, some are friendly and some lift eyebrows...this what make us hard to look for true love...it is bcoz the society could not accept people like me whole heartedly...they continue to deny the fact that we are also loving and of value to our society...that we too have the same needs of the non-gay people have...we too need to feel worthwhile...to feel safe...to feel free from harm and suffering...and we too need TO LOVE and BE LOVED...

for me...i would say i am quite an exception to all the agonies of people like me when it comes to LOVE...i wud say i am blessed...having different SERIOUS LOVE AFFAIRS with STRAIGHT GUYS is quite an experience for a gay who lives in a straight dominating society...but you bet...it is so wonderful to feel the touches, care and kisses of a straight man...and nothing will compare about the feelings when HE let everybody see how proud and happy HE IS WITH YOU!!...

oh how happy i was that time!!...

they say the men will always be MEN...and they are born for women...i know and accept that from the start...i know that relationship like i have do not last too long...but if you already are counting years, then that would mean something on a higher level...i may say...quite an achievement for trans like me...i believe that nobody is guaranteed with a perfect relationship...not even the straight people...and that reality lessens my pains...

all the relationships i had ended up bcoz of women...it is a bit acceptabale and too easy for me bcoz the third party is not someone like me...but still PAIN is there...fortunately...it did not make me weak...instead it made STRONG...but as i always feel pain over and over again, unfortunately...it makes me INSENSITIVE...not good for me...that is why i am so worried at this moment of my life...it is already stored in my mind and in my heart that whenever there is love there is also pain...that even you are with a new guy...still you will have the same experiences like you had before...oucchhhh again?!!!...

i thought it is always better to be strong and be a fighter...but we should not always be like that bcoz it will stone our hearts...and that makes me worry so much...that opening it back to welcome somebody new in my life seems to be very hard for me to do...i hope i can get over this...i want to feel love and being loved again...i may not pick up the right guy...i may not have a very good love story with him...people might tell im dumb and blinded...but what matters most, i FEEL LOVE again!!!

i am learning myself to open my heart for LOVE once more...so i can have another love story to tell...and i am happy for this...wish me luck freinds...it might not be as good and as wonderful like what you have...but just listen and feel about how am i going to tell you all about it...

Be Gay Be Happy

Life is so beautiful and whatever reason it is why you still continue living with it is because of only one thing: HAPPINESS. A big house, new cars, successful businesses, great achievements, wonderful family, and all the things that you want in life are the things that makes you happy. It is true that no person is contented with his life but there are people who are happy with their lives. It is so important that you know what makes you happy because when you know it, you also know where to start and where you plan to head your journey. This is true to all mankind. Happiness do not chose a person. Even the disables, the ill, and the poor have their own way of finding happiness and it doesn't matter if you are black, white or brown…and even if you are straight or gay...

Accepting ones self is the first step to know who you are and what you really are. You will never find happiness when you are confused with your self. Just try to let the real you come out. Never deny, do not hide, do not be scared, and do not lie on what you really like. There maybe a lot of factors to consider that hinders your coming out. Parents are on the top of the things that worry you so much, especially, the father. Personally, I do not know what it is like but I do feel for those who are in the situation. More often they become closeted, queer and discreet. Their emotions, gestures and culture are being controlled by how they appear to be. There are some things to consider why you chose to be like that. Everyone understands whoever is in that kind of situation. But the question is: Up to how long can you be a prisoner of the real you? When will you follow what you want for yourself and forget what your parents or the people around you want them to be who you are? You may become expert in playing that role but you will also regret every single moment of it. Remember, we are getting older and not younger. The more you let others tolerate you with what they want you to become, the more regrets you will have later. We own our own lives. We have the right to live and chose who and what we want to be. Be yourself and be happy. If there are people who are not happy for who you are then they are the people who do not understand you. It is your own choices that really matters. After all it is your own life that you are dealing with. Forget about the concern on what others will say. What is important is YOU are YOU and you are happy with being who you really are.

This time is the right time for you to have a decision that is good for your self. Just think about yourself now. There is nothing wrong about coming out. Expressing oneself is one of the bravest and the most appreciated acts in a man’s life. Tell the world who you are and you will feel unleashed. Be true to your self so that others will know how to deal with you. Being gay is being happy. You will get to enjoy the kind of life it offers. There is nothing compares when you are in the circle. For being gay and being with gays means having life, love, fun...fun...fun…and lots of fun! You will learn how to be strong because in an everyday life of a gay, it is always a challenge to prove yourself how far can you get with all the misjudgment and discrimination around. And when you finally get there…You will be so proud of your self that you made it. In spite that the world is too much mess for gays, we always find a way to laugh and even have an adventure everyday in everything we do. This is what the straight people envy us a lot. While they seem to be very strong and organized, it is them who are really weak when it comes to facing the real troubles in life. But for the gays, because of the discrimination that tails us all the time, we learn how to be a fighter…so when the real problem comes; it is nothing new to us anymore. And by that, we still manage to laugh at it.

It is time to decide for what is good for you now. Express yourself and feel relieved. Life in this world has a lot to offer. So do not let the day gone by, by regretting every moment of it when you pass the places where you want to go and seeing the things you really want to do. The curtain is up now, so come on out and celebrate life! There is nothing happier than being a gay because whatever dictionary you have…it is always the word HAPPY that best defines the meaning of GAY!