A Shemale As Always A Woman

She's Always A Woman To Me by Billy Joel is a beautiful song that contains a very wonderful lines on how to understand and treat a woman. I use this song in my video bcoz the lyrics are the best words to describe how a transexual like me regards herself as a woman and should be treated and be understood as also a woman. With this song, i am hoping to open every person's mind and heart to treat a Shemale/Ladyboy/TS as always a Woman in every way...

LaDyBoY iN ReD

Why Red?

Because Red is a very interesting color. While others define it as the color of war, for me it is the color of Love and Lust. Red roses symbolizes passion. Red lipstick makes your lips pout and kissable. Red nails are seducing. Red dress is hot. Red silk is sensual. The color Red makes me in the mood for anything warm and wild. It is a very powerful color.


There are several reasons why i wear Red. Sometimes it depends on what i am feeling or on what i want to feel. I wear Red when:

• I am In Love

• I also wear red accent pieces when I want to present myself as bold and dynamic. It can boost my confidence if I am attending a function or interview where I feel unsure of myself.

• I need to grab attention and to get people to take action.

• I don't want to sink into the background.

• I need an increased of enthusiasm and interest.

• I need more energy

• motivate me to have action and confidence to go after my dreams.

• protection from fears and anxieties.

• attracts good luck in my life.

People may have different reasons why they wear red. Some hates it, some likes it. For some it is for good uses, but there are others that express their pains, hatred, and violent disapproval through using the red color. There are even few that doesn't care about meaning of the colors. But with all our reasons, beliefs, and significance in using red color, one thing is very important..."the rainbow, that gives us the sign for a beautiful day ahead, can never be as beautiful without the color Red."

thanks to about.com and crystal-cure.com for some of the thoughts

A TS LOVE...

After feeling the pains of a broken heart in our last relationships, we always say Love Really Hurts. Sometimes we make promises to never get easy on love again and we should be very careful the next time we fall inlove. But why do we still get hurt even in our new relationships? Questions like this should never be asked if you feel love and thus should be accepted first and foremost. Because when it comes to TS, Love and Pain comes the same. Guys can easily take advantage on us because they know that when we love we give our all. Most of the times, we take all the pains just to make the relationship keep going. But still it is us who are suffering and left alone.

First of all, when you look for love you must also be ready for the pain that comes together with it. The only problem about us, TS, is we give so much focus on the pains we experienced. We cry over days and weeks and tell every friend how hurt we are with our currently done relationships. Yes, being hurt is nature to man. But it doesn’t mean it is the only thing you had on your relationship. Why do we always make the pain as the main thing? The truth is Pain is just a little part of Love. There is still a big part that we refuse to recall because our hearts are still aching. Why not try to remember how inlove you were? How you did all the things you did just for the one you love? By doing that, you will come realize how great your love was. That crying over someone who hurt you is not what is your love is all about. And when you will realize that you are capable of giving genuine love, you will know it is not your loss. And that is all that matters. For you will never be completely human without knowing what Love is.

When one relationship ends, we think we would never love again. We put in our heads that being unattached again will make our lives more enjoyable. We get to go out where we want to go and can meet new people, partying like a bitch, have many men, more fun, more and more! We do these things because we want to avoid the possibility of loving once again. We think that looking for fun and playing around is the best way to forget about love. And as we go on like this for longer times, we tend to forget that we are capable of love and loving. Why love and get hurt when there is life full of fun without being inlove?

Everything in life changes when it is time to change. In a ts life, fun is our sister. We bitch around because we feel it is nature to us. And I know we are all wrong about it. There will be a time when your eyes will get dizzy of the disco lights, throats will be soaked with so much liquors, noses will sneeze out because of too much cigarettes, ears will be deaf by the constant beat of techno music and feet will become too lazy to dance....There will come a time that we will get tired of having fun, only fun and nothing else.

We all know that there is something lacking within us when there is no love around. We know that we are not totally happy without it. And when we recall our lives during the time we were with someone, it will definitely bring a smile to our faces and would probably say –“I know what I am missing”...Love truly completes our Happiness...

We should open our hearts again for everything that will come into our lives just to feel love once more. With no rushing and no hard trying, we will meet someone who will electrify us just like the feeling when we felt love for the very first time. Yes there is no assurance if he will be the right one. We knew that there are so many things to sacrifice...to give up...and to adjust for a new relationship to work, but just believe in what your heart will tell you -"Love with no questions, no fears and no rules...Just go on and do what you think that can make you happy...for love, even it hurt you before, made you cry and suffer...still it is LOVE"...

Listening to your heart will always prize you with a happy love life if you are sure that you are willing to give the best of it. Do not regret anything by following your heart. Going out for fun is always there but LOVE comes rare. The moment you feel it you should go for it!! You will come to learn that it is worth trying for and even you will have a million times of tries, you should never stop trying. Have faith that there is someone who are meant to be with you in your lifetime because that is what TS love is all about. It is all about patience, understanding, and caring.

TS are very special people when our lovers know how special we are. We long for LOVE and belongingness in a society where we are usually treated not equal. We look for security to a person that can make us feel worthwhile. When we feel that there is love, we stay. And in return to the love we receive, we give our unconditional love that goes beyond the boundaries of the stars. While it is true that Fun and TS are sisters, it is also true that Love and TS are twins. So when you truly love TS, you can definitely have both LOVE and FUN at the same time. And by that, i am proud to say that a TS LOVE is indeed the GREATEST LOVE of ALL...